Introduction
The new perspective that we've developed makes it possible for most people to wind up with wholehearted agreement, even where it wasn't possible before.

Now that this perspective has been developed, a compromise solution — a solution that doesn't have the wholehearted agreement of everyone involved — is no longer the best option we have when people's viewpoints are diverse. Wholehearted agreement is.

The success stories included on this web site were chosen because they clearly illustrate this.


Blue Cross Blue Shield
We taught the perspective to Jean Harris, Vice President of Operations, and her managers in 1998. There were 700 employees in their division.

When they began the program, they were not an integrated group. There was defensiveness among some of the persons in the group, and some of them were managing their departments autocratically.

By the end of the program, this group of intelligent people, with a diversity of viewpoints and very strong individual attitudes, had become integrated into a true team. They were individually so happy with the results, they were hugging the trainer at the end of the program.

They were functioning much more successfully as a team, and much more successfully with their departments and other teams. And they were enjoying the results they were getting immensely.

For the next ten years, the group's meetings were much shorter. Problem solving was much easier. Solutions were more effective. And individually they had much more time for other tasks.

At their annual strategic planning retreat, after the program, they completed the planning successfully in half a day instead of the two days they had scheduled.

After their program, they began formulating new policies and procedures with this perspective which were much more of a fit for the employees and customers they impacted.

These new policies and procedures made it possible to reduce staffing by 13 percent, led to very high levels of employee satisfaction, and increased customer satisfaction to 97 percent (in an industry where customer satisfaction was declining).

The group was able to achieve and maintain this level of success even as the number of customers their division was servicing was growing rapidly.

The group remained together for many years after their Key to Winning Program. But eventually, several of the original persons in the group moved on and were replaced by new managers who had not been taught the perspective.

Even though there were new managers in the group who had not been taught the perspective, the team continued to maintain the same high level of efficiency and effectiveness. This is because the original team members with the perspective were having such a positive effect on the new managers.


Dixie
This success story illustrates an important quality of the perspective we've developed. When someone has this perspective, the others involved tend to feel truly valued. It usually has a very positive effect on an outcome.

Dixie was the Human Resources Director of a large midwestern hospital system.

She had completed two days of The Key to Winning Program when she learned that their longtime database manager — the only person who fully understood their database — would be leaving in two weeks for a new job.

His leaving seriously threatened the stability of the hospitals' information systems.

He had been in charge of the database for such a long time, Dixie and others were assuming he would always be there. Now that he was leaving, Dixie realized that there wasn't anyone who knew the database well enough to replace him.

At first, Dixie offered more money, but that didn't work. He had other reasons for leaving. He had been managing their database for many years and wanted to do something that was more challenging.

Faced with what seemed like an insoluble problem, Dixie decided to use the new perspective she was learning. Once she began using the perspective, to her surprise, the database manager changed his mind about when he was going to leave.

Dixie's new perspective was creating a much better dynamic between her and the database manager. This is because Dixie was no longer negotiating with him.

This change in Dixie's perspective led the database manager to realize that he wouldn't feel comfortable leaving the hospital system with a database that could soon become unreliable. So he offered to delay the start of his new job for two months in order to train a replacement and put together a knowledge base for his replacement to refer to.

After he completed the knowledge base and trained the replacement, he began his new job. Soon after, he contacted Dixie and told her he wanted to return to the hospital system.

He told her that the new job was very rewarding, but when Dixie was working things out with him, he had begun to feel especially valued by her. He realized that being part of a group where he was truly valued was more important to him than having a job that was more challenging.

When Dixie reported this to us she was thrilled! The hospital system had their experienced database manager back, a well trained backup and a knowledge base too.


Dave
This success story clearly illustrates just how much our perspective can affect the outcome.

Dave was the developer of a very well regarded software product in the hotel voice mail industry. For years he refused to allow anyone else in his company to have access to the code. The software was the company's principal product, and he was genuinely concerned that if other persons had access to the code they would damage it.

To be competitive, hotel voice mail systems had to be very reliable. When a system at a hotel failed, it caused significant problems for many of the hotel's guests. Dave knew that if the software's code was compromised, it would undermine the reliability of his company's systems.

Because Dave was the only person who had access to the code, he was also the only person who completely understood it. So significant amounts of his time were required to provide solutions for the technical support team and for clients in the field.

These demands on his time prevented him from further developing the software, and it was jeopardizing the company's competitive edge in the industry.

Also, his company was gaining a reputation among its distributors for being a "one person" business. Even though they were receiving considerable industry recognition for their voice mail systems, the "one person" reputation was hurting sales.

Over the years, no inducement the company had offered Dave — and several were substantial — could change his mind. He just couldn't see a solution that would also protect the software.

But soon after Dave's Key to Winning Program, he was able to see a solution that both he and his company could truly agree with, ending years of deadlock between them. After years of frustration for Dave and his company, it was truly a win for everyone.

Why couldn't Dave and his company see a solution before he learned this new perspective? Both he and his company were sincerely interested in finding one.

The answer boils down to this: The perspective that he and his company were using beforehand wasn't able to bring to mind a solution that each of them could truly agree with.

Once Dave had the perspective that could bring to mind a solution, a solution came to mind.


Sharon
When compared with the other success stories, the story below is relatively minor in terms of its impact on the company. We included it because it very clearly illustrates how much our perspective can affect the decisions we make.

Sharon was an executive consultant in Chicago. During her Key to Winning Program, she used the perspective with Andrea, who was refusing to do a simple task. Other members of the company were growing frustrated with Andrea and were threatening to replace her.

Sharon talked with Andrea until she understood what was actually happening. She discovered that Andrea had a condition that would make her disoriented and dizzy if she did that task. With that information, Sharon could easily come up with an effective solution where Andrea was able to retain her position and the company didn't have to incur the cost and uncertainty of replacing her.

Before Sharon talked with Andrea, no one had asked Andrea why she was refusing to do the task. Instead they were making assumptions. And Andrea never explained her condition to them (not an uncommon event when someone is feeling protective).

One of the qualities of the perspective that we've developed is that it's not logical to rely on assumptions. The logic of the perspective is to bring to mind a solution that everyone involved can wholeheartedly agree with, and for that, accurate information is required.

So when a solution is needed, a person with this perspective isn't likely to make an assumption. Like Sharon, it's going to be more logical for them to get accurate information, which in this case she was able to get from talking with Andrea.

It really is hard to imagine, isn't it, that Andrea could have been terminated without anyone knowing the actual reason she wasn't doing the task. But that's how assumptions work. As soon as someone makes an assumption and begins to rely on it, the assumption — not actual information — is shaping the outcome.


Sharon (2nd story)
We've included this success story from Sharon because it clearly illustrates what a quick and positive impact this new perspective has on group dynamics — even in very difficult situations.

Before Sharon learned the perspective, she was often stressed at work. There were so many different viewpoints among the executives in her group, it was difficult, and sometimes impossible, for them to form effective solutions.

Often she and others had to compromise just to keep things moving. Or, she would try to force a solution she felt was absolutely necessary, but then other members of her group would become less cooperative with her and sometimes angry.

As soon as Sharon learned the perspective, she adopted an entirely different approach. She began to bring to mind solutions that she and the others in her group could truly agree with.

This radically changed the dynamics of the group. As members of the group became confident that they were going to wind up being truly in agreement with the solutions the group was adopting, their focus changed. They felt sufficiently comfortable to shift to a more explorative approach — working together as a team to come up with the most effective solution possible.

Their meetings became more relaxed and more enjoyable. And the solutions were often much better, making their jobs easier and their departments more successful.

Next >>>
 


 

Whenever people are
truly in agreement,
it's going to result in
a better outcome.