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Introduction
The new perspective that we've developed makes it possible to wind
up with wholehearted agreement with decisions and solutions, where
it wasn't possible before.
Now that this perspective has been developed, a compromise solution
is no longer the best option we have when people's viewpoints are
diverse. Wholehearted agreement is.
The success stories included on this web site were chosen because
they clearly illustrate this.

Bill – The perspective smooths the way
Bill is the Executive Vice President of Guaranty National Title
Company. In Why it Works,
his story illustrates how the perspective has made it possible for
him to have much more success coordinating difficult commercial
property transactions.
The most powerful feature of the perspective is that it makes it
possible to bring to mind solutions that everyone involved can
wholeheartedly agree with, even when they are not like-minded. With
this ability, Bill has been able to bring the parties to these
commercial property transactions together — even parties who
have had a history of negativity — and solve complex issues to
everyone's satisfaction.
In this section, Bill's story is a good vehicle for illustrating two
other abilities this perspective produces. Together, these abilities
ensure that a person has all the information they need to create an
effective solution.
First, when a person communicates with this perspective, it
naturally encourages a free flow of information among the people
they're impacting. This ability has been particularly valuable to
Bill because of the complex nature of the transactions he
coordinates, and because the parties can be contentious in the
pursuit of their interests.
For example, in a twenty million dollar transaction, the parties had
a history of negativity and their dislike for one another was making
it impossible to solve the issues in the transaction effectively.
With the perspective, Bill knew exactly what to say. And that led to
a much more open discussion of the issues.
As a result, important information came to light that made it
possible for Bill to offer an alternative structure for insuring the
title. Without this alternative structure, the parties would not
have been able to meet a requirement of a key lender in the
transaction.
Also, because of the open and productive conversation the parties
were having, all of the issues wound up on the table. Because all of
the issues were known, each of them could be effectively addressed,
which led to an exceptionally good outcome.
Bill's client and the other parties were very satisfied. One of the
parties, a substantial developer, afterward transferred its business
to Bill's company, and has been a loyal client since then.
In addition to promoting a free flow of information, this
perspective also gives a person an enhanced ability to be aware of
the assumptions they or other people are making. It enables them to
recognize when conclusions or information are not accurate, and it
enables them to see when more information is needed for an effective
solution.
In Bill's case, this ability has increased the accuracy of the
information in these difficult transactions, making it possible to
formulate much better solutions.
It's reduced the parties' risk of loss from inadvertently relying on
an assumption during a transaction, and it's made it possible for
Bill to structure the title insurance more accurately, protecting
the parties and protecting his company from claims.
As Bill's experience illustrates, this perspective gives a person
the ability to create the most effective and efficient solutions,
even in the most difficult situations.
In Bill's words,
This perspective enables me to successfully
facilitate complex transactions with very diverse agendas to a point
that everyone is satisfied.
Before The Key to Winning Program, I had 30
years experience in the title insurance industry, and I never would
have thought an outcome this successful could be possible in these
difficult transactions.
I feel much more in control, and I am much
more relaxed. I can satisfy the respective parties and I can do it
without creating undo risks to my company.
I am very grateful to have had the
opportunity to participate in The Key to Winning Program. It's made
it possible for me to save valuable transactions I wouldn't have
been able to save before. And it's made coordinating these difficult
transactions much more enjoyable.

Blue Cross Blue Shield Ten-Year Case Study
When we taught the perspective to Jean Harris, Vice President of
Operations, and her managers, they were not an integrated group.
There was defensiveness among some of the persons in the group, and
some of them were managing their departments autocratically. At the
time, there were 700 employees in their division.
By the end of the program, this group of intelligent people, with a
diversity of viewpoints and very strong individual attitudes, had
become integrated into a true team.
They were functioning much more successfully as a team, and much
more successfully with their departments and other teams. And they
were enjoying the results they were getting immensely.
Also, they were using the perspective in their personal lives. And
several people in the group reported having very positive
experiences with members of their family that they deeply
appreciated.
For the next ten years, the group's meetings were much shorter.
Problem solving was much easier. Solutions were more effective. And
individually they had much more time for other tasks.
At their annual strategic planning retreat, after the program, they
completed the planning successfully in half a day instead of the two
days they had scheduled.
After their program, they began formulating new policies and
procedures with this perspective which were much more of a fit for
the employees and customers they impacted.
These new policies and procedures made it possible to reduce
staffing by 13 percent, led to very high levels of employee
satisfaction, and increased customer satisfaction to 97 percent (in
an industry where customer satisfaction was declining).
The group was able to achieve and maintain this level of success
even as the number of insureds their division was servicing was
growing rapidly.
The group remained together for many years after their Key to
Winning Program. But eventually, members of the original group began
moving on and were replaced by new managers who had not been taught
the perspective.
Even though everyone on the team hadn't learned the perspective, the
team was able to maintain the same high level of efficiency and
effectiveness. This is because the original members were still
bringing to mind solutions that were truly a fit for the people
involved. So they continued to have a very positive impact on their
team, their division, and the insureds they serviced.

Dixie — Drawing people together
This success story illustrates an important quality of the
perspective we've developed. When someone has this perspective, the
others involved tend to feel truly valued. It usually has a very
positive effect on an outcome.
Dixie was the Human Resources Director of a large midwestern
hospital system.
She had completed two days of The Key to Winning Program when she
learned that their longtime database manager — the only person
who fully understood their database — would be leaving in two
weeks for a new job.
His leaving seriously threatened the stability of the hospitals'
information systems.
He had been in charge of the database for such a long time, Dixie
and others were assuming he would always be there. Now that he was
leaving, Dixie realized that there wasn't anyone who knew the
database well enough to replace him.
At first, Dixie offered more money, but that didn't work. He had
other reasons for leaving. He had been managing their database for
many years and wanted to do something that was more
challenging.
Faced with what seemed like an insoluble problem, Dixie decided to
use the new perspective she was learning. Once she began using the
perspective, to her surprise, the database manager changed his mind
about when he was going to leave.
Dixie's new perspective was creating a much better dynamic between
her and the database manager. This is because Dixie was no longer
negotiating with him.
This change in Dixie's perspective led the database manager to
realize that he wouldn't feel comfortable leaving the hospital
system with a database that could soon become unreliable. So he
offered to delay the start of his new job for two months in order to
train a replacement and put together a knowledge base for his
replacement to refer to.
After he completed the knowledge base and trained the replacement,
he began his new job. Soon after, he contacted Dixie and told her he
wanted to return to the hospital system.
He told her that the new job was very rewarding, but when Dixie was
working things out with him, he had begun to feel especially valued
by her. He realized that being part of a group where he was truly
valued was more important to him than having a job that was more
challenging.
When Dixie reported this to us she was thrilled! The hospital system
had their experienced database manager back, a well trained backup
and a knowledge base too.

Dave — Agreement where it wasn't possible before
This success story clearly illustrates just how much our perspective
can affect the outcome.
Dave was the developer of a very well regarded software product in
the hotel voice mail industry. For years he refused to allow anyone
else in his company to have access to the code. The software was the
company's principal product, and he was genuinely concerned that if
other persons had access to the code they would damage it.
To be competitive, hotel voice mail systems had to be very reliable.
When a system at a hotel failed, it caused significant problems for
many of the hotel's guests. Dave knew that if the software's code
was compromised, it would undermine the reliability of his company's
systems.
Because Dave was the only person who had access to the code, he was
also the only person who completely understood it. So significant
amounts of his time were required to provide solutions for the
technical support team and for clients in the field.
These demands on his time prevented him from further developing the
software, and it was jeopardizing the company's competitive edge in
the industry.
Also, his company was gaining a reputation among its distributors
for being a "one person" business. Even though they were receiving
considerable industry recognition for their voice mail systems, the
"one person" reputation was hurting sales.
Over the years, no inducement the company had offered Dave —
and several were substantial — could change his mind. He just
couldn't see a solution that would also protect the software.
But soon after Dave's Key to Winning Program, he was able to see a
solution that both he and his company could truly agree with, ending
years of deadlock between them. After years of frustration for Dave
and his company, it was truly a win for everyone.
Why couldn't Dave and his company see a solution before he learned
this new perspective? Both he and his company were sincerely
interested in finding one.
The answer boils down to this: The perspective that he and his
company were using beforehand wasn't able to bring to mind a
solution that each of them could truly agree with.
Once Dave had the perspective that could bring to mind a solution, a
solution could come to mind.
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